朋友圈那些让人心碎的人生感悟，深爱过的人都懂！

　　一、微笑的看不出破绽，那是你崭新的面具?无论是平坦或坎坷的生活，都不会有人告诉你该怎么做。勇气比经验重要，态度比能力重要，勇气是最好的体验，态度是最大的能力。

　　Smiling doesn't show a flaw. It's your brand-new mask. No one tells you what to do in a flat or rough life. Courage is more important than experience, attitude is more important than ability, courage is the best experience, attitude is the greatest ability.

　　二、在成名的道路上，流的不是汗水而是鲜血，他们的名字不是用笔而是用生命写成的。人只因承担责任才是自由的。这是生活的真谛。别说我的态度不好，如果我用你对我的方式对你，我们可能早就没有以后了

　　On the road to fame, it is not sweat but blood that flows. Their names are not written with pens, but with life. Man is free only by taking responsibility. This is the essence of life. Don't mention my bad attitude. If I treated you the way you treated me, we might have no future.

　　三、友不在多，贵在风雨同行。 情不论久，重在有求必应， 所谓情真: 只要你要，只要我有； 只要你需，只要我能。 所谓义重： 不是得意时的花言巧言， 而是关键时刻拉你的那只手！

　　Friends are not many, you are in the wind and rain. Regardless of the time, the emphasis is on responding to the demand. The so-called truth: as long as you want, as long as I have; as long as you need, as long as I can. The so-called righteousness: not the rhetoric when you are proud, but the hand that pulls you at the critical moment!

　　四、永远不要怪别人不帮你，也永远别怪他人不关心你。活在世上，我们都是独立的个体，痛苦难受都得自己承受。没人能真正理解你，石头没砸在他脚上，他永远体会不到有多疼。人生路上，我们都是孤独的行者，如人饮水冷暖自知，真正能帮你的，永远只有你自己。

　　Never blame others for not helping you, and never blame others for not caring about you. Living in the world, we are all independent individuals, suffering has to bear their own. Nobody really understands you. The stone didn't hit his foot. He never realized how much pain it was. On the road of life, we are all lonely travelers, such as people who drink cold and warm water, know that you can really help, always only you.

　　五、谁走进你的生命，是由命运决定；谁停留在你生命中，却是由你自己决定。当你做什么都于事无补时，唯一能做的，就是努力让自己好过一点，丢都丢了，就别再哭了。

　　Who comes into your life is determined by fate; who stays in your life is determined by yourself. When everything you do is useless, the only thing you can do is to try to make yourself better. If you lose everything, stop crying.

　　六、如果一个人身受大恩而后来又和恩人反目的话，他要顾全自己的体面，一定比不相干的陌路人更加恶毒，他要证实对方罪过才能解释自己的无情无义。

　　If a person is greatly beneficent and then opposes his benefactor, he must be more malicious than an unrelated stranger if he considers his own dignity. Only by proving the guilt of the other party can he explain his ruthlessness and unrighteousness.

　　七、正如太阳照耀大地，鼓舞世人，你的美色就是我的白昼和生命。你是不是经常在深夜像个傻子一样，不知道自己为什么睡不着。想说的话拖着不说，久了自然心事重重；想做的事拖着不做，久了自然压力重重。当拖延成了习惯，疲惫不堪就成了常态。时常梳理一下自己，你还是自己的太阳。

　　Just as the sun shines on the earth and inspires the world, your beauty is my day and my life. Do you often feel like a fool late at night, wondering why you can't sleep? If you want to say something, you will have a lot of natural thoughts for a long time; if you want to do something, you will have a lot of natural pressure for a long time. When procrastination becomes a habit, fatigue becomes the norm. Often comb yourself, you are still your own sun.

　　八、活在这世上，每个人都想通过自己的方式，展现自己的人生价值。生命不止，奋斗不息。站在适合自己的位置，做好自己该做的事情，不羡慕，不嫉妒，怀揣着善良与理想，努力。Living in this world, everyone wants to show their life value through their own way. Life goes on and struggles on. Stand in a position that suits you, do what you should do well, do not envy, do not envy, cherish goodness and ideals, and strive.

　　九、生命的尽头，除了牵挂的人外不再有仇恨的人，而生命的尽头是哪天，我们无从知道，也无从确定，因此为了我们拥有精彩的生命，请记得放下那些我们计较的人或事，让当下更开心。既然今生人的心灵不可避免要被一次又一次地切割，那就勇敢面对直面而来的刀锋。The end of life, in addition to the people concerned, no longer hate people, and the end of life is the day, we have no way to know, nor to determine, so in order to have a wonderful life, please remember to put down those people or things we care about, so that the present more happy. Since the soul of this life will inevitably be cut over and over again, it is brave to face the blade coming directly.

　　十、也许最好的感情是：彼此精神相互独立，情感又相互依赖。可不管什么样的感情，如果是好的，幸福的，那么都会有以下这三种表现。有梦想就要大声勇敢地说出来，藏着掖着就永远不可能成长和进步，就无法走向成功！Perhaps the best feeling is that they are spiritually independent and emotionally dependent. But no matter what kind of feeling, if it is good, happy, then there will be the following three manifestations. If you have a dream, speak out loud and bravely. If you hide it, you will never grow and progress, and you will never succeed.

　　十一、 异地恋就是，你谈了一场恋爱，对着手机哭，对着手机笑，分手了也没能抱一抱。别抱怨自己活得太累过得太苦。像我，以前什么也不是，现在不同了，连身价千万的老板看到我都主动打招呼：“喂，服务员，过来一下”！Long-distance love is when you talk about a love affair, cry over your cell phone, laugh at your cell phone, and break up without holding it. Don't complain about living too hard. Like me, it used to be nothing, but now it's different. Even the tens of millions of bosses see me and say hello on their own initiative: "Hello, waiter, come here!"

　　十二、不合适的人一开始就不要招惹！你以为只是开几句玩笑、喝两杯咖啡而已，无伤大雅。人哪，总是相处的动物，明明无法有结果、却又离不开的人，真如绵衣藏针，暗自叫苦。我们总是被毫无防备的人，伤了一生！Don't provoke an unsuitable person at first! You think it's just a joke and two cups of coffee. It's harmless. Man, the animals that always get along with, the people who can't get results but can't get away from them, are really like cotton-padded clothes hiding needles and crying bitterly. We are always injured by unsuspecting people for a lifetime!

　　十三、不圆满的是自己的烦恼，不清净的是自己的业障。你有看不惯的事，说明你的智慧不够；你有看不起的人，说明你的慈悲不够。有慈悲的人，没有看不起的人；具有智慧的人，没有看不惯的事。其实，都是因缘和合而生，只是众生的因缘不同，所以才有不同的显相。

　　What is not perfect is one's own troubles, and what is unclear is one's own karma. If you have something you are not used to, it means you are not smart enough; if you have someone you look down on, it means you are not compassionate enough. He who has compassion has no contempt; he who has wisdom has nothing to be accustomed to. In fact, they are all born of harmony and harmony, but because of different reasons of all living beings, they have different appearances.

　　十四、北京，这座城市，有人来，就有人走。走走停停的脚步从来没有停下来过。有无数热血沸腾的青年带着一颗颗热忱的心来到这里。他们追逐梦想的脚步从来没有停歇。Beijing, this city, people come, people go. Stop-and-go footsteps never stop. There are countless young people coming here with enthusiasm. They never stop chasing their dreams.

　　十五、我不是冷血，更不是慢热，只是害怕投入太多，离开的时候会难过，感情中最害怕的，是我越来越认真你却没了当初的热情。这世上哪有什么成长，不过都是被身后的万丈深渊催着走罢了。I am not cold-blooded, let alone slow-hot, but afraid to invest too much, leaving will be sad, the most scared emotion is that I am more and more serious, but you did not have the original enthusiasm. There is no growth in this world, but it is driven by the abyss behind us.

　　十六、买了就买了，不要去比价；吃了就吃了，不要去后悔；爱了就爱了，不要去猜疑；散了就散了，不要去诋毁。有人也会承认你是好人，但是言下之意是好人被人欺。所以你若好的没有底线，别人就可以坏的不加羞惭。你的善良有时候必须带点锋芒。Buy it, buy it, don't compare prices; eat it, don't regret it; love it, don't doubt it; scatter it, don't slander it. Some people will admit that you are a good person, but the implication is that good people are deceived. So if you are good without a bottom line, others can be bad without shame. Sometimes your kindness must be a little sharp.

　　十七、 昨天越来越多，明天越来越少。走过的路长了，遇见的人多了，不经意间发现，人生最曼妙的风景是内心的淡定与从容，头脑的睿智与清醒。More and more yesterday, less and less tomorrow. After a long journey, I met many people. I found that the most beautiful scenery in life is calm and calm in heart, wisdom and sober in mind.

　　十八、我们一直是在离别中，比如和爱的人，和伤害，甚至和时光。不如就利用孤单一人的时间使自己变得更优秀，给来的人一个惊喜，也给自己一个好的交代。We are always in parting, such as those who love, and hurt, even with time. It's better to use the time of loneliness to make oneself better, surprise the people and give oneself a good account.

　　十九、对别人生气1分钟，就失去了自己人生中60秒的快乐。所以我们要学着没心没肺，对什么事都渐渐的无所谓。我已经准备好了足够挡雨的伞，可是却迟迟没有等到雨的到来，这样的尴尬只是我漫长人生中的小插曲罢了。If you are angry with someone for one minute, you lose 60 seconds of happiness in your life. So we have to learn to be heartless and heartless. It doesn't matter what happens. I've prepared enough umbrellas to keep out the rain, but I didn't wait for the rain to come. This embarrassment is just an episode in my long life.

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